The Approach: It might be a classic cocktail, but if the event takes place by the beach or in a garden, adjust accordingly. Ladies: “I tend to be more casual in the summer—and definitely wear ...

(If a wedding is held on the sand at a beach resort ... possible show up slightly stoned. “Casual cocktail.” This is like a dog whistle telling women to wear flats, Tory Burch, probs.

Disclaimer: just because the dress code says "cocktail," that doesn't mean ... FYI: Ballet flats, sneakers, and casual sandals all fall into the "not the vibe" category, but Mary Janes, pumps ...

For women, glitzy dresses of any length are appropriate — just not a gown." In other words, cocktail attire is a dress code that falls somewhere between casual ... Looks that fall under semi ...

What, pray tell, is beach casual? Or creative black tie? Or business casual or cocktail attire or, ugh, sporty casual? I have no idea. What? You thought this was going to be useful? Please.